That's what every guy I know says to me sooner or later, and its true.
I never IM guys.
Why?
Because the reason guys IM me is that one way or another, they want sex.
Oh. they might want to go dancing, or have a cuddle, but it always ends up about sex.
And, depending on my mood, they might get lucky.
But that's why I don't IM guys. If I IM them, they will think... oooo BJ IMed me she must want sex, which i usually don't.
So its much easier to just not IM them at all.
So IM me guys, you never know, I might be in the mood