Saturday, December 27, 2014

On Parting Ways, coments on an ex friends blog entry

When I was about 3 months old, I was invited by my good friend Shadow (Kaboom's dragon pet, not his latest bride) to visit a club where the wedding of her owner was taking place. I was there dancing with my RL partner when this big red demon showed up. Being polite I offered him my congratulations at his marriage. A few days later Shadow brought me to his castle, and despite my apprehensions, I soon became a regular in his court. We grew closer over time, and I stood firm beside him watching an endless stream of partners and lovers come and go. I still think about the day when wanting to show how much i loved him, I disrobed and offered myself to him.

We were best friends for well over 4 years, until last week.

That's  the day i attended yet another of his endless string of marriage ceremonies, and as I was about to leave at the conclusion of the ceremony, I typed, "its ironic Kaboom that we met at one of your wedding receptions, and now at another we are ending our relationship", but i changed my mind and didn't hit send.  I didn't realize how prophetic that was

A couple of hours later I noticed Kaboom's calling card in my trash, which signified that he had unfriended me.

I was floored and told both Phleur and Sinder how upset i was.

If I counted my closest friends on the fingers of one hand, he was always there.

Even during his endless absences from second life, i always considered him a friend. I always waited for the day he would once again return, and i would take my place beside him, as friend and helper.

What circumstances brought this parting of ways? Several things came together that day. I had been having a longstanding feud with Coronzon over the proper "RP" concerning personal pets. Lord Coronzon has a habit of collaring for his own personal use a large percentage of the subs that came to Hell Hole to play. It got to the point that on more than one occasion the other demons had complained to me that the only slaves in hell were off limits as Coronzons "beloveds".

I  would laugh and tell them all that means is that they have to try harder to get them in bed, and that the only RP rule I accept is   OOC (out of charactor) No means No. Everything else is fair game.
If Coronzons personal pets will bed others, that reflects a lack of training on the subs part, and is not a reflection on the person that beds them

I was imed by Kaboom sometime before the wedding and summoned to Hell Hole to be accused of undermining the rules that HE HIMSELF had approved of, and in the process upsetting all the other overlords.

If i was thinking faster I'd have offered to have a whaaaaaambulance stationed outside the castle to attend to any bruised feelings. I never knew big bad demons had such delicate thin skins.

Anyway, not wishing to upset Kaboom and cause strife on his wedding day, I accepted that he was right and I was wrong and simply resigned from the group and left.

It has long since ceased being Kaboom's group anyway, being run instead by Coronzon in the way he sees fit.

At this point i must backtrack to a few days earlier, when I was summoned to see Kaboom and his bride to be and was informed that since his daughter Misty would be unable to be in the wedding party, I was graciously being allowed to participate. Apparently shadow had insisted that only family  members be allowed in the wedding party. Kaboom's own first was to be shadows son, which I considered to be an insult to both myself and Coronzon. Either one of us would have been more fitting  to stand beside Kaboom at the alter.

I was also informed that i need to buy a red dress and attend the rehearsal.

I said nothing but over the next 24 hours  decided i would not be a last minute replacement in Kabooms wedding party.

I attended Kabooms wedding with two of my lovers, showing up right before Kaboom was to walk down the isle. Kaboom imed me asking if i was going to stand with him, and i told him no, i'm just going to watch.

 Since i was not in the wedding party I felt there was no reason for me to dress in any particular style and i informed whoever imed me questioning my outfit of that fact. At least i was dressed. As for the bunny outfit, I'm usually neko, but Sin calls me her bunny, so I've been wearing bunny ears and a tail.

I stayed for the entire  wedding, and it was when i started to type my parting shot after the service concluded that i decided to quietly take my leave instead, taking my lovers with me.

It saddens me that Kaboom would toss aside our long time friendship. I have many powerful memories of us memories that I will treasure for ever.

But nothing lasts forever not even friendships. I hold no hard feelings towards Kaboom, and wish him all the best in the future.

http://demonsadventure.blogspot.com/2014/12/parting-ways.html